Old sex is new sex!

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MANY BELIEVE THAT for a committed relationship to last and “succeed”, a couple’s personalities have to be compatible; they must share common interests and always agree with each other. Well allow me to disagree. To me what matters most besides D. and I being in love, is the fact that sexually, we are a perfect match. He has a higher sex drive than I do (and I’m blogging mainly to change that) but at the end of the day, we pleasure each other in ways that only love and (8) years spent together can afford us.

Yes, D. and I are constantly fighting. Not break the dishes, throw his clothes over the balcony fights; but disputes about things that we don’t even remember five minutes later or frankly care to. We are both stubborn, dominant and we cannot stand being told what to do. But when it comes to our sex life, we are harmonious and orgasmic. We share the same favorite positions standing dog and deep stick and I’m sure he could even pinpoint the exact location of my G-spot just by looking at my stomach.

Besides the first week after I lost my virginity to him, I have always been content. I can honestly say that I have never had to fake an orgasm with D. because not only does he take pleasure in satisfying me, he listens to me and fulfills my body’s needs. A few people have asked me if D. is the only man I’ve ever been with how would I know I’m not missing out “for sure”. I laugh and ignore them because they are the ones missing out. Plus when the perfect man and the right cock have found you, all you need to do is love back and spread wide because they are the perfect fit.

I have also heard and read that after eighteen months of being in a new (sexual) relationship, the excitement of “new sex” runs right out the door-without looking back and even IF the couple is still having sex at this point, it is unexciting and monotonous. Well I pay “studies” of the kind no mind and neither should you. As long as you are willing to fight for your love life, there is excitement and great sex to be found and shared with your lover. Give in to your fantasies by doing things to keep the spice steaming. Bring in new flavors by exploring your darker, naughtier sides and sharing! Make it your goal to always surprise and keep each other guessing; after all that is the lure of “new sex”: the uncertainty and mystery of what is to come next!

5 comments:

derek bowles said...

Good thing it's national masturbation month...

Lolita said...

I totally agree. In fact, it should be EVERY month of the year:D

Total Chat said...

Not quite sure what to say to this post only to say that I admire your openness about talking your realtionship through like this - sex is very important in a relationship thatis for sure!

Lolita said...

It is because sex is so important to me that I want to give in to it more, Total Chat. This blog keeps me from "slacking off". Since I started this blog, I am more honest in what I want with D. and I am more open to new things now than I was 2 weeks ago. I call it win win :D

Freddie Sirmans said...

Nice blog, very interesting.

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