Is love ever enough?


THERE IS NO going back. We are over and getting a divorce. So chances are this blog is dead. At this moment, I am not sure and I don't know what comes next. Lolita lives on in her quest to being herself and living life on her own terms. Thanks for reading, for helping me discover and accept my sexual being and for the best sex of my life so far.


stillthinking said...


I am just heartbroken for you. I am so sorry you are going through this. You have really changed my opinion of you, you know. When you first showed up at BC, I was a little horrified by your blog. Then, as I got to know you on the forum, I realized what a good person you are and that you feel things very deeply. I consider you a friend and will be thinking of you while you're experiencing this hardship. I don't think you should stop blogging, but maybe it's time to take it in a new direction. You do have talent, dirty words and all. ;0!

Good luck and please keep in touch! --ST

The Duchess said...

Oh honey, I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
If you ever return to blogging please let me know, as I do love reading your words...

snoodle said...

I am so sorry. Cant believe it, was reading through your blog from the past and thought you are so happy... Will keep my fingers crossed you to get over it as fast as possible.

Good luck, hope you will be happy again soon. Take care.

I am ekiM said...

Oh man I was looking forward to your blog posts from the moment I found myself here. It's sad to hear that this might be your last blog post, that I hope not Lolita.

Anyway just a few words to encourage you, life goes on. And it will continue no matter what you do. Don't allow yourself to be stuck on something that could jeopardize your life. We only have one life, thus we only have one chance. I hope you won't waste this opportunity called life to continue your journey through it. Take care.

- ekiM

TJ Lubrano said...

Hi Lolita, I'm really, really sorry too hear this.

I hope you won't stop blogging, just like Still said, you can go in another direction. You have a real talent for writing! Sometimes writing about stuff can help you cope with things. There are friends out there who think of you and wishes you all the strength and positive energy in the world! Take care.

Anonymous said...

Dear Lolita, sorry about the divorce...but please keep blogging! When a door closes another one opens up.

...and your right, your blog is raunchy! Holla!

Nothing Profound said...

Lolita-I'm so sad to have dropped by today and discovered this. My heart aches for you. I consider you one of my dearest friends at BC and I will miss you so terribly if you choose to abandon your writing. You are a fantastic larger-than-life human being and I admire your determination to live your life according to your own desires. I know you will survive your present difficulties and eventually prevail i this game of life. Please, please keep in touch. I would love to meet you someday.

Sorcerer said...

ooh! sorry to hear that.
was first time in my blog..
as your motto says "Life finds a way" and you are determined..
Go Champ!!

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